TheBanyanTree: The Fourth Anniversary

Monique Colver monique.colver at gmail.com
Tue Feb 28 12:04:34 PST 2012


I'm so sorry Nancylee. I'm thinking of you, and hoping for peace for you as
you go through this most difficult time.

Monique


On Sun, Feb 26, 2012 at 1:32 PM, <NancyIee at aol.com> wrote:

> Margaret,
>
> Your posting has helped me today more than you could ever realize.   This
> past Tuesday, my husband passed away instantly from a horrid  accident.  We
> had spent the morning together, breakfast, then back to his  house to play
> on
> the computer (he liked to show me his mail, lol) and then we  planned our
> weekend. This weekend.  You see, we had separated some years  ago, and
> slowly
> were making our way back to each other. We were talking "future"  and
> forever. and I realized that in spite of the crap that separated us, he
> and  I
> were always, he and I.
>
> I am in a million pieces.
>
> But, your posting helped, since I still feel him, smell him, hear  him.
>
>
>
> The  great and sad mistake of many people is to imagine that those whom
> death
> has taken leave us.  They do not leave us.  They  remain.  Where are they?
> In darkness?  Oh no!  It is we who  are in darkness.  We do not see them
> because the dark cloud envelopes  us, but they see us.  Their beautiful
> eyes,
> radiant with glory, are  fixed upon our tear-filled eyes.  Our dead are
> invisible to us, but  they are not  absent.
>
>
>
>
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