TheBanyanTree: The dark art of raising a teenager

Theta Brentnall tybrent at gmail.com
Tue Nov 29 07:57:16 PST 2011


It's called "The Mother's Curse."

"One day you'll have kids of your own and when they behave like you're 
behaving right now, you'll be sorry!"

It's true.

Theta

On 11/28/2011 11:38 PM, Anita Coia wrote:
> Oh dear.  I didn't know whether to laugh or cry reading your wonderful
> responses.  Thank you so much for sharing them.
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> I did like the idea of imagining he has been temporarily overtaken by an
> alien, but it might be hard to keep that in mind when one of his four
> parents or his older sister or sister's friends or his friends or one of the
> many caring teachers at his school is picking up the pieces of something he
> has forgotten or neglected that has impacted on other people.  I suppose
> when he is left to fend for himself and also deal with other people's
> reactions, he might work it out.
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> Julie, I too have given up on the diet angle. If he wants to drink Coke and
> eat MSG-loaded packet Mee Goreng noodles for the rest of his life (largely
> because he can't be bothered cooking, even though he CAN), well, so be it.
> Apologies in advance to the taxpayers who will be subsidising the medical
> care required as a result.  And apologies to his future wife (or wives) - we
> have all tried very hard!
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> Teenagers - punishment for the sins of our own youth.  J
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> Anita
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