TheBanyanTree: I had a dream

[Sally Larwood]

I know where you're coming from Theta.  My dad died on the first day of an
overseas trip and we had his remains cremated and the ashes sent home.  We
then had a memorial service for him, but I don't think I've ever actually
believed he is dead.  
The day after he died I saw him sitting his chair in their loungeroom and
you wouldn't believe the number of dreams I've had when he just turns up.  I
adored my dad, and, like you, Monique, those dreams are precious.  Just
treasure the dream and wait for the next one.

Sal 

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I would argue that she isn't gone, not completely.  She can still visit you
and have tea in your dreams and who knows, she may have just made that dream
happen so she could have tea with you and let you know that the adventure
continues.

hugs

Theta

On Wed, Feb 3, 2010 at 11:35 AM, Monique Colver
<monique.colver at gmail.com>wrote:

>
>
> And so when the alarm went off I woke up reluctantly, wanting to stay with
> my Mom, knowing that when I did wake up she'd be gone, and has been gone
> since November. But I dragged myself awake, knowing that Mom wouldn't want
> me to stay when I had so much of life to get through, and there's so
little
> time to waste.
>
>